Flirting is regarded as sort of an art rather than a science. Some people are born with such ability and others could learn to do it more effectively. On the one hand, some people are superior to others in flirting naturally, but one the other, if you could learn a few simple techniques, you could also do it well. Here we offer such tips that you could follow in your flirtation.
1. Concentrate the current conversation.
Once having a talk with your potential date, it is very important that you should focus more on the current conversation than worrying about the final result of inviting her go out for a date. If you think more about how to give a desperate try, you would take the risk of showing your true personality and probably getting rejected in the end. If you feel the conversation move smoothly and the chemistry is obvious there, the expected result would be the satisfactory to both of you.
2. Try to keep eye contact.
For communication, your eyes could do more than you think. Sometimes, with eye contact, it is unnecessary to get close to your potential partner of dating. To such end, you should try to have yourself to be seen through your looking-up. In addition, you should try your best to make everything tasteful as possible, for you are not intended to come across as a creepy person. After the initial eye contact, a coy smile is always nice step to follow. By doing so, you could clearly demonstrate your intentions and when you get closer to your potential dating partner, there is such need to have an opening line.
3. Pay attentions to humor.
It is widely acceptable that most people enjoy the company of the individual who could bring laughers to them. With a strong sense of humor, you could hide up some real or perceived shortcomings of your own. Furthermore, the properly used humor could be a great ice breaker between strangers. However, you are kindly advised that your humor should not be presented too hard or too strong. The better way to do it is to give some quips occasionally with your observational skills instead of trying to learn some plodding story jokes in advance to show off your sense of humor.
4. Know where your focus is.
During your attempt in flirtation, you should always have your focus on your flirting object rather than yourself, because, you would not only show your genuine interest, but also let the other party think that you are a good listener as well. Therefore, avoid talking too much about you; instead, try to ask questions about her. You should remember that as your focal point, she would be VIP in the room to your eyes.
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