Sometimes boys are subject to awkwardness around girls who they think charming and attractive. If they are unable to flirt with them properly, instead of attracting girls, they may turn girls away by saying something uncomfortable or doing something dumb. Therefore, if you could follow a few simple tips, it would help draw attention from girls you appreciate.
1. Try to ask questions.
If you would like to incite the notice of you from a girl, the better way to do it is to focus the conversation on her but not on you. By doing so, you could ask some personal questions about her, and try to find anything identical you share. Remember to not to fake interest, because the girl would have a right evaluation of you if she is intelligent enough. Try to concentrate such things she likes and demonstrate that you are interested in the similar things, and then give her the chance to talk more about herself. During the conversation, if you think that there are few things in common between you, it is the time to leave away and look for another chance in the future.
2. Try to be funny.
Generally speaking, people get used to being entertained; those people who are entertaining would be easily and quickly remembered. The best way to do it is to be amusing rather than turning into a buffoon. In fact, you would like let the girl laugh at your cleverness and wit instead of your stupid action. Here the self-control and careful calculation are necessary. When you make jokes, make sure that how effective they are, if you think they become annoying, you had better stop them immediately. You should be aware that a single well-prepared witticism could leave the impression of yourself as a quiet and clever person, otherwise, the girl would think you are a clown through your slapstick.
3. Try to be confident.
Confidence is regarded as the factor necessarily attractive to other people, for it could leave the impression on somebody who is clear about what he likes to want and what he should do. However, as character of humor, it should be carefully and nicely controlled. If you break the bottom line and behave too arrogantly, you would face the negative backfire. As a result, the girl would be frightened and turn her back on you. If you want to appear confident in your conversation with the girl, you had better give a few words when the girl is asking you some questions, too much talking would bring no good to you. Girls are usually impressed by the quiet confidence.
4. Try to wait for longer time.
Once you do like a girl very much, you would get the urge to follow her footsteps, watch closely on her schedule and try to happen to meet her accidentally on the regular basis. Sometimes, you should wisely overcome such this urge. What you should do in this case is to behave confidently and friendly so as to show your interests on her and make her believe that you are fond of her. Furthermore, you should also keep her more curious about you every time you see each other. By flirting, you are likely to draw her attention instead of pursuing her. In such circumstance, you would turn yourself into a scarce commodity.
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